Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Getting Him to Fall in Love on Your First Date

When it comes to your dates, particularly a first date, you want to make the most of the opportunity. You want to aim high and make him fall in love with you on the first date. Where many times people don’t fall in love right away, there are things that can be done to make him think about you throughout the week. To help you achieve the ambitious goal of winning his love on the first date, here are some tricks that you can use.

 

Doing some research

To make the most out of your dates, some preparation can go a long way in making a lasting impression. Do a little research from his Facebook posts, or from friends, or hobbies he likes. Find out what things he is into and the kind of girls he likes. After which, plan your date around those things and use them to your advantage. You can put all the effort and hope in planning a special evening together at the movies, but if he’s seen the movie four times already, your efforts are in vain.



Photographs / Facebook picture

Sometime during your date you should get your photograph together either from a photo booth, or your iPhone. Later in the week you can casually post the pictures of the two of you on your Facebook. Make sure you have him in your friends list so he gets the picture on his wall.

Photos are a powerful tool in the process of falling in love because they have a way of bringing back strong memories and hopeful possibilities in a future relationship. They have a way of making us feel and relive memories again. Use them to your advantage. It’s sometimes the little things we do that can make the difference him in falling in love.



Using the right scent

During your time together, you should be wearing a nice perfume that matches you well. This is important in winning his love, because you can use your scent to your advantage later on down the road when your date is over.

Leave your scent around places and things that he may come in contact with. By doing so, you can remind him of the feelings and memories that the two of you shared in the past few days. Jogging his memory with emotions and thoughts of you is a very helpful step in getting him to fall in love with you.



Leaving him with a trinket

On a date with any man, you should get him something to remember you by. Something small but memorable that will make him think of you when he sees it again when he’s alone. A little trinket or stuffed animal that he can remember the date by. Things that remind him of you when you’re not around will help him along in the process of falling in love.



A Little alcohol never hurt love

It’s no secret that a little alcohol can play with our emotions a bit. If the opportunity comes along, try and get him to drink a little on your date. By getting him to feel good through a couple of drinks, you can set up the evening in your favor of him falling in love.

He may sometimes refuse a drink if you do, so during your meal together if you are offered a drink, go along with it.



Making him think about you (through your conversation)

During your time together there is a little trick in making him think about you throughout the week. This is done by not giving him the full answers to all of his questions about you. If he asks you a question about your work, answer by making it a guessing game. Keep dropping him hints and make him guess what you do for work. When he is getting close, don’t give him the final answer. This will keep him thinking about you throughout his week as many men hate unanswered questions. By keeping some things about yourself a suspenseful mystery, you can actually improve your chances of him falling in love with you.



Getting in his fantasies

Part of getting him to fall in love is in getting in his fantasies. This can be done in the things you talk about together. Many women will make the mistake of only talking about their past or present during their dates. What should be done is to also talk about your future.

Your goal is to paint an exciting and passionate picture of your future. The things you are excited about next week, the adventurous activities you have planned, your ambitions, and the people you will share your life with. By doing so you are painting a picture that he will find exciting when he thinks about you. People naturally want to connect with something or someone that will make their life exciting, give him something to look forwards to in being with you.





There are subtle aspects when it comes to people falling in love with another. They include; building memories, thinking about the other person, fantasizing about them, and developing strong feelings. Where making someone fall in love with another may seem impossible, touching on the smaller parts of falling in love is something that is very tangible. Use these tips on a date to make him fall in love with you.
 
 
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